To Follow back or not To Follow back…That is the question

14 Feb


I do not know about the rest of you, but ever since I started blogging I like following blogs that have humor  and a personal feel to them. The kind of blogs that have at least something to do with writing, poetry, books, and well anything I can really feel good about reading and will not make me sad for more than 5 hours. But then again I pretty much read anything, its like my brain and my eyes are programmed to just see and react to words. If i see writing, I will read it.

Now most of the time when I follow a blog, I never really expect them to follow me back ( low self esteem issues and the like). but when they do.. wow. Its a great feeling.

I just wanted to get other people views on the matter,because for me, personally I like following back when a blogger follows me well except the porn umm whats the word, “mature” themed ones. I guess I am not yet free to openly follow such. Weird I know


10 Responses to “To Follow back or not To Follow back…That is the question”

  1. ioniamartin February 14, 2013 at 5:06 pm #

    I completely agree but I also kind of have become more selective about who I follow back, there are some uh hem…interesting people out there;)

    • A Girl Nicknamed Dee February 15, 2013 at 6:20 am #

      I thought I was being bad when I did not follow back some people. I kept feeling guilty somehow

  2. Pete Denton February 14, 2013 at 8:14 pm #

    I agree. Whenever I follow someone it’s because I think I might like to read more of their posts. When someone follows me if they share similar interests I automatically follow back. Mutual support and all that. 🙂

    • A Girl Nicknamed Dee February 15, 2013 at 6:21 am #

      Glad you agree. I just never know what to do about the other blogs out of my umm “comfort zone”

  3. Pooja Gupta February 18, 2013 at 2:16 pm #

    The blog that I am on now is my second blog for the first I had to shut it up because of some reasons. So in this new one, very less people have visited/commented/liked/followed which actually makes it easy for me to keep a track of and keep checking them. When someone follows me, I rather go and see how interesting their blog is to follow them than automatically following them. It’s all okay this way because it lies on ‘your’ interests to follow who and who not. Even I have followed some who haven’t followed me back, everyone is selective, choosy and selfish. The world revolves like this only. I did like the quotes and the thoughts you put up, they were very inspiring so a follow became must for me. Haha. Thanks for the follow too. Keep up the good work lady. :”)

    • A Girl Nicknamed Dee February 18, 2013 at 2:44 pm #

      Thank you, When I checked out yours I liked it, I thought it would open up a new world for me. you know indian culture and all. Plus you mentioned you like books so, well i just had to follow. Thanks for the follow back

      • Pooja Gupta February 18, 2013 at 4:24 pm #

        Well, to me being Indian is only about how I take on feminism and nothing more. There is nothing more in here to even believe or talk about, really. You’re from where if not India? xoxo.

        • A Girl Nicknamed Dee February 18, 2013 at 4:50 pm #

          Africa, in Zambia 🙂

          • Pooja Gupta February 18, 2013 at 4:54 pm #

            Wow, hope you’re okay with the weather there right now. Haha. :”D

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