A fine line between sweet and sour-Women

22 Mar

They say a happy woman makes a happy home…simple and straight forward.
Forget all this talk of women are complicated, they are from pluto or only aliens know the secret to pleasing them. It is all bogus and just an excuse to make us seem like we are confused retards who have an average of ten mood changes per day. Get to know us and just try to understand. No two ways about it šŸ™‚ .
So often we hear guys saying how they have had it with women and how they never really know what to say to avoid ‘the silent treatment’ and possible arguments.

It is simple we act according to how we are treated. Say nice things and treat us like queens and you will be rewarded like wise-THE SWEET TREATMENT…but disrespect us and treat us like you do not appreciate us and well we will pretty much bite your head off and make your life a living hell-THE SOUR TREATMENT.
One thing i have realised about being female is that we can not live without compliments…laugh if you want but its true. It is almost like compliment are to women like water to a plant (well not that much) but its close. If we were not complimented enough we would just wilt away and die…a really slow and painful death. It aint even a joke *straight face*

But of course i am not talking about those lame pick up lines that make us want to hurl, laugh out loud and wonder which comedy show you star in or maybe even poke out our own eyes…I mean real stuff. Believable stuff that can make us smile.
If a girl is from the salon and just did her hair, being told that ‘you look amazing’ is just what she wants to hear. It doesnt hurt at all to say nice things, especially if she did go the extra mile to look good.
I often do not like accepting this truth but whenever i do my hair or put on a new amazing outfit and i want my boyfriend to see it and he does not say anything…well i hurt inside and even though i know i look pretty in it, not hearing him say so makes me doubt it a bit…but of course i never show it. šŸ™‚ its true.
I guess in the ended all that women want is to feel needed and appreciated šŸ™‚


7 Responses to “A fine line between sweet and sour-Women”

  1. Webster Mwape M March 22, 2012 at 2:32 pm #

    Wow! I have learnt to understand women at their needs and basic wants especially were emotions are concerned,i give out the best to my girlfriend and every woman in my life.

  2. A Girl Nicknamed Dee March 22, 2012 at 2:43 pm #

    I am glad that you do…and that shoutout to your girl and to women is really sweet šŸ™‚

  3. prakritiherbals March 22, 2012 at 3:01 pm #

    Well,we deserve to be pampered,don’t we šŸ˜‰

  4. Sui Generis March 27, 2012 at 10:20 am #

    Great! Though I have learnt not to be ‘too nice’, some females took advantage of that n just ‘used’ me. *The feeling sucks* I now have my limits n understand women a bit more.

  5. A Girl Nicknamed Dee March 27, 2012 at 10:34 am #

    Aww Oh mate, am sorry about that…but I am glad that you understand us better, it sucks though that you were treated badly.

    • Sui Generis March 27, 2012 at 10:45 am #

      Yeah it did, I’m glad I didn’t stereotype, that eint me. . . Thanx ya.

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