My Top 5 Relationship myths

12 Mar

Like everyone else I have always dreamt of the “perfect” relationship…the type that makes you want to scream from the highest building ‘i am so happy and in love…i am walking on sunshine and the birds are singing our song’. yeah I dont know if anyone ever does that but it would kind of seem weird I guess.

Anyway we all hear stories and talk about just what a real realationship should be about. What is expected and what is not not expected. Well all this just brings about people having all the wrong expectations and views.

I am no relationship Guru myself (though i wish i was bacause that would be so awesome) but i think the following are all just MYTHS.

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1. The perfect real relationship does not require work to be put in for it to work.

-the truth is for a relationships to work it actually does need some effort to be put in…but it has to come from both parties and not a situation where only one person is doing all the work.

2. Having a baby will  make the relationship stronger.

-it is true that bringing a baby in this world will give you something to bond over more when you love each other but to believe that a bvaby will make him stick by your forever  when the relationship is shaky and nothing is holding it is just wrong. not to mention cruel, because you are using an innocent soul to make something work that probably is not meant to be.

3. For a relationship to work, the partner has to change.

-well unless your partner in a cheater or a violent person who is also an alcoholic, this is a really bad way to start a relationship. And believing in such a rule may just cost you your relationship.

4. Jealousy in a relationship is a sign of real love and care.

-a little jealousy may be sweet at first, but in actual sense it is just a sign of insecurity. There are times when your partner can try by all means to reasure you that they love only you but the jealous thing always manages to somehow reappear and ruin good conversations and relationships.

5. Arguing is a bad thing.

-This is just an excuse for people not to talk about things that are affecting them and resorting to bottling them up. Which is the easiest way to being unhappy. Talking about your issues will help with having them solved.

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5 Responses to “My Top 5 Relationship myths”

  1. Sui Generis March 27, 2012 at 11:59 am #

    1.True 2.True (I don’t even know why people believe in this myth) 3. True 4. True (I hated it when my ex from years back became the police n tried to investigate my whole life n just got all the wrong info, she fell short anyway.) 5. True. . .Good read!

    • A Girl Nicknamed Dee April 2, 2012 at 11:18 pm #

      For number two i think it is just an excuse for people to have sex. Lol. Just kidding. People just want perfection where it should not be. I am a culprit too at times, with the whole mr right thing.

      • Sui Generis April 2, 2012 at 11:23 pm #

        Lol. . . Yeah I kinda do understand the whole Mr/Mrs Right thing though I have learnt to look past it.

      • A Girl Nicknamed Dee April 2, 2012 at 11:42 pm #

        I think i will just blog about it, i think he is in the same category as santa and the faster bunny.

      • Sui Generis April 3, 2012 at 12:10 am #

        Hehehe and the Honest Politician.

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